i am 7 weeks preggo on sunday, im so excited, i cant wait to see my baby, i eat healthy foods, bcause my mom loves to cook healthy, i cant sleep long, coz i always think my baby, how is she/ he doing in my tummy, but im scared also, coz no one knows that i am preggo,i belong to a coservative family ..they judge people easily especially to all single moms they criticize them, if my family knows about this , i think they were angry, they hit me, hurt me, or get me out of our hauz,, i dont hve a job coz i failed my medcal exm.. my family didnt know that i have a bf,, for almost 6 months coz my family dont like me to hve a bf,, coz i need to work frst,, and now my bf broke up with me.he doesnt like the baby, i really dont know what to do.. now,, can you please help me, i dont want to abort my baby coz i love this so much, i dont want to lose my baby.. i dont like adoption also..
additional i am fresh grad,, in college i am 22 ,so they expect me to hve a job frst.. my family is very strict..
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amanda b - said
September 9 2010 @ 04:34
You need to talk to your parents. They will probably be upset at first but they will come around. Give them a chance. You need support during your pregnancy, it is a very emotional experience. You also need prenatal care so you need to tell soon.
Adrienne - said
September 9 2010 @ 04:35
Honestly, you should talk to your mom about it. Abortion is never the answer and adoption is way too hard. I am 17 weeks preggo and I could not imagine giving my baby up. But as for the father not liking the baby, well…screw him. If that is how he is going to be he does not need to be in the baby’s life. Your family will be mad for a while after you tell them but they will get over eventually. My mom was fuming when I told her I was preggo. I was really scared and I still get judged by ppl in my family but I have learned to ignore them. It’s not worth all the stress. Hang in there…things will be ok.
Good luck.
1st baby-Elizabeth-Due Oct 7th - said
September 9 2010 @ 04:35
first of all.. HOW OLD ARE YOU. cause we cant tell if your really young or old enough to actually support this kid alone.
you said your boyfreind broke up with you and now he doesnt like the baby. what an ass. and even if your parents are super conservative, if your old enough to do this thing, and you decide you want to do it, they should not judge you or ESPECIALLY HIT YOU?!!? what kind of people would abuse their pregnant daughter.
you need to talk to them about it.
and you need to start off by letting them know that your boyfreind left you in this situation alone.. he was extremely selfish for doing that. unless you guys are really young.. and then.. well.. thats to be expected.. he got scared.
either way.. you really need to tell them and talk it over with them.
i hope everything goes well.
good luck