we have been married for 2 years together for 4 and he and I have gained weight in the process. I have joined a gym and watching what i am eating all the time. I cook healthy meals for the two of us at dinner, but I can’t control what he eats (or doesn’t eat) at breakfast and lunch. Now he needs to lose at least 25lbs, I am worried that he will just keep getting bigger. I don’t want to hurt his feelings but he is pushing me away because I have tried to do all the subliminal things to get him on board with weight like I am doing but it is not working. What should I do, say, to get him to change? for himself and me. Please give me some advise.
And when i met him he was ripped (hense the reason I married him) and all into working out and staying fit, eating right… now he’s married and thinks its fine to gain weight!
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crystalbaby - said
October 9 2010 @ 04:33
ask him to join the gym with you that would be great exercise… Dont be afraid he is your husband and you should be able to talk to him about anything,,, =] oh have drink alot of water guys can loose a lot of weight that weight. Does he drink alot, beer is fating but there are alcoholic drinks that are none fating. Its just wen you drink youu eat alot. you now">> good luck
stacey s - said
October 9 2010 @ 04:33
Nearly every couple struggles with food issues. Some may be as simple as one person wanting pepperoni on their pizza while the other wants vegetables and low-fat cheese. While this issue can be solved with a two-for-one topping pizza deal, other food fights are not as simple.
I would avoid criticism and avoid the F word (fat). Sometimes working out together may be another solution since your going to the gym maybe ask him if he’s interested in going with you for support.
Good Luck!
Slajana B - said
October 9 2010 @ 04:33
i would be strict. i dont want to be mean but tell him he needs to lose weight NOW. tell him to get to a gym. he will feel great. it only takes about 1 hour a day, and if hes gaining fat like this, imagine his muscle gains. he could get really ripped, tight abs, and a big chest. ull be happy then. just get him to a gym. be stern. be strict. hell be mean if you have to. start taking away things he likes if he doesnt go
subodh - said
October 9 2010 @ 04:33
If you believe in subliminals then ask someone to design subliminals and just play whenever he is around that will automatically motivate him,, the instint might develop within himself.. try http://www.braineditor.com i hope it is of som ehelp to you
Regards